Wednesday, December 17, 2008 ♥
Anyway ,i was bloghopping for th whole of one hour in th early noon. Boredom set in so that explains th reason i spent my time doing that. I should have started studying but somehow ,my mind seemed to saturate w unappropriate things. Thus ,leading me to be in daze for th whole entire noon. Maybe ,i still need some reflection-therapy once more before i really get enthused w next year's preparation. Hopefully ,everything will be alright by then. To those lovely peeps out there ,don't worry ,i am now all fine. Its just that i need some refreshing time of my own to brush myself up &shrug off the sorrows ive encountered. Like what SISaeynn has advised me ,''Let go &let god guide you''.
Anyhow ,after reading some blogs i hopped in ,i came to a conclusion that most teenage girls prefer to blog or better still ,boast about themselves w diff kind of guys. Somehow ,it seems like they're proud of it. Proud having a number of boy friends that they have to brag about each &every single one of them in their public blogs. Seriously ,i myself have no idea whats their purpose for doing that kind of thing. I then remembered what ayah has advised me before. Well ,not only before but all th time. Each &every single time whenever we meet. According to ayah ,th most important treasure in a girl's life is their dignity. Thus ,in order to take a v good care of our dignity ,we have to respect ourself. In which ,is to guard our freedom during friendships. Esp w diff gender. For instance ,if we were to reveal our freedom to public ,in example ; having a day out with a guy ,then later on with another guy &then th next day with diff kind of guy. Worst ,pictures showing th closeness that shows th skins get into contact ,when actually the ties is not more than just a friend. Well ,can you imagine that? To top it all up ,its th female gender who mostly brag about their boy friends when th boys didnt even say a thing. Well ,from my own inference ,it seems like these kind of girls just wanna attract attention from others. Maybe to show how ''popular'' they are by showing the number of guy friends they have. On the other note ,guys can say how popular they are for getting themselves surrounded by girls (lelaki memang gitu -.- ) Life is still life. You cant change th fact that even if you're popular among the guys &if you misuse them ,you'l still be looked down. No matter how intelligent you can be. That is simply because self-worth in women is more vital. That explains why there is a phrase in Al-Quran to girls out there which is to look down whenever your eyes accidently meet the guys' (tapi tetap kaseh suka cuci mata ,haha) That is simply to stray yourself away from any false accusation.
No ,im not saying that im good. That's what i feel as a Muslim girl. Even as a being ,im not that right in some ways. Like there is a saying ,there isnt any perfection in humans. But its not wrong for me to remind my fellow friends esp my Muslims acquaintances about the true path in Islam. In a way ,it actually reminds myself too (: alhamdullilah.
For now ,i wanna change for th better (:
Ini hari topic hot eh? hehehe. Assalammualaikum kwnkwn :D
