"You can forgive someone almost anything but you cannot tolerate everything. We don't have to tolerate what people do just because we forgive them for doing it. Forgiving heals us personally. To tolerate everything only hurts us all in the long run."
anyway ,thanks ♥Zara fr telling me th song tittle :D i miss you. i miss sbls. *loves&misses/hugs&kisses*
and thanks ♥eldyana for telling me th lyrics :D
♥♥♥ YOU ; you were there to light my day you were there to guide me through when our days were down and out i'll never stop thinking of you
how can i forget all that when you're the one who make me smile you'll always be apart of me how i wish you were still mine
never will forget the day how we've met and gain this far eventhough we got this feeling but somehow it has to end up here we know it me who said goodbye and thats the hardest thing to do coz you mean so much to me and thats the truth for me to you
for all the things i've done and say for all the hurt that i've cost you i hope you will forgive me baby coz that wasn't what i meant to do
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i found something on zara's blog ,on how to move on after a break up ;
Step1 - Remember that time heals all wounds. Give yourself plenty of time to heal and recuperate. Put away pictures ,gifts or any mementos that remind you of your ex. It is natural to experience feelings of denial ,but do your best to resist the urge to call your ex and ask to get back together. Immediately after a break-up ,you are at your most vulnerable state so be careful not to get into a rebound relationship that may prove to be a mistake.
Step2 - Surround yourself with friends and loved ones. Talk about how you're feeling and allow them to comfort you and offer you advice. A break up can be a very lonely experience ,therefore ,surrounding yourself with others that you love and trust will help to erase some of the loneliness. Don't try to deal with the experience all by yourself. In fact , go out and meet new people ,rebuild old relationships ,network and immerse yourself into social situations. Keep yourself busy doing things you enjoy with the people you love and don't dwell on the past.
Step3 - Go out and have fun. Don't stay home and sulk as it will only make you feel more miserable. Round up a group of friends and hit the town. Do something fun and exciting. Plan a weekend beach or camping trip or take a quick out of town getaway. Going out with friends will remind you that being single can be just as fun as being in a relationship. It will also help to keep your mind off of your ex.
Step4 - Take some time off for yourself. If you can ,take some time off work and get away from the world for a while. Use this time to reflect on your life and expectations for the future. Enjoy your time alone with relaxing activities like reading ,taking long baths ,watching your favorite movies or engaging in a favorite hobby or past time. Basically , take this time to do whatever makes you feel the most relaxed and calm. It is important to clear your mind of all negative feelings and relaxing will help you to slowly let go of any lingering bitterness.
Step5 - Start dating again. After you have given yourself adequate time to get over your last relationship ,you should consider getting back into the dating game. Allow yourself to fall in love again and enjoy the start of a new relationship. Be careful to not rush things and take the time to really let your partner into your life. However ,take care not to be consumed in this or any other relationship because you never know when another break-up may happen.